Future Focused Parenting
How to Unlock Your Child's Imagination and Inspire Their Dreams
In a world that can feel a little wild and unpredictable, helping your kids imagine a bright future is one of the coolest gifts you can give them. Future-focused parenting isn’t just about dreaming big, it’s about unlocking their creativity, building resilience, and giving them the confidence to think about who they want to be. Plus, it’s a whole lot of fun! Let’s dive into how you can bring future-focused parenting into your family’s everyday life.
28 Essential Skills Every Teen Should Master
Preparing your teen for adulthood isn’t just about academics, it’s about equipping them with the life skills they need to navigate the real world with confidence. From managing money to handling household tasks, I've created an Essential Skills Checklist that covers the must-know skills for independence. Whether your teen is heading off to college, joining the workforce, or simply preparing to move out, these 28 skills will set them up for success.
You Don’t Get to Keep All You Make: A Quick Lesson on Paychecks
The first paycheck moment is unforgettable. You’ve done the work, put in the hours, and are expecting a specific amount, only to see that the actual deposit is significantly less. If you’ve ever felt that sting, you know exactly why this lesson is so important. And if your teen hasn’t had their first job yet, they’re in for a big surprise.
That’s why it’s crucial to teach teens about paychecks before they receive one. Many young workers assume their entire wage makes it into their bank account, only to be blindsided by deductions for taxes and other withholdings.
5 Simple Books About Money Every Adult Should Read
Learning about money doesn’t have to be complicated. If the thought of budgeting, investing, or planning for retirement makes your eyes glaze over, you’re not alone. But the truth is, financial literacy is one of the most important life skills you can have, and it’s never too late to start.
I believe that learning about money should be approachable, practical, and, dare I say...enjoyable. That’s why I pulled together a list of five simple books about money that make financial literacy accessible for adults at any stage of life.
Whether you’re a parent trying to model good money habits, a young adult figuring out your first budget, or someone who’s just tired of feeling overwhelmed by personal finance, these books are a great place to begin.
Raising Resilient Teens: How Healthy Exposure Builds Strength
Why does raising resilient teens matter more than ever? As parents, our first instinct is to shield our teens from failure. But the reality is, guarding them from every setback leaves them unequipped for the real world. High school, college, and eventually adulthood will bring challenges that require adaptability. The best gift we can give our teens is the chance to practice taking risks when they’re young and within a safe environment. Read more to discover seven essential experiences for raising resilient teens.
Teaching Teens the Value of Hard Work
Many parents assume their teens will eventually “get” a strong work ethic on their own. But here’s the truth: teaching the value of hard work isn’t something that happens passively. It takes intentional parenting, consistent expectations, and plenty of real-world experience.
If you want to raise a teen who understands effort, responsibility, and pride in a job well done, here are some practical strategies to guide your approach.
Small Tasks, Big Lessons: How Chores Build Confidence
If you’ve ever wondered whether your child is ready for chores or which ones to start with, you’re not alone. Chores can sometimes feel like a battle, but the truth is, they’re one of the best ways to teach responsibility, independence, and teamwork. The secret? Start small, stay consistent, and match tasks to your child’s stage of life.
Chores aren’t just about keeping a tidy home (though that’s a nice perk). They’re about helping kids grow into capable, confident adults, one small task at a time.
Kids Movie Night Ideas: Raising Ready Kids, One Film at a Time
Let’s be honest: parenting often comes with a silent panic about whether we’re doing enough to prepare our kids for the real world. We want to raise resilient, empathetic, thoughtful humans, but between math homework and laundry, that can feel like a tall order. Here’s a little secret: sometimes, the best lessons come from simply sitting down together, sharing a blanket, and pressing play.
Movies can do what lectures can’t. They pull kids into stories of struggle, courage, loss, and triumph in a way that feels natural and even fun! When the credits roll, there’s room for deeper questions and conversations that stick. So if you’re looking for a way to spend meaningful time with your kids while helping them grow grit and grace, these ten films are a great place to start.
The $1 Burrito That Changed How I Teach my Kids About Money
A few years ago, on Halloween night, my family found ourselves in line at Chipotle, ready to take advantage of their $1 burrito promotion. It was the perfect pre-trick-or-treating meal…cheap, easy, and a no-brainer, or so I thought.
As we stood there, my son, Jack, suddenly announced, "I'll be right back." Curious, I asked where he was going.
“I don’t feel like a burrito,” he said. “I’m going to Panera to get a salad.”
Now, I’m all for healthy eating, but my reaction had nothing to do with nutrition and everything to do with cost.
"A salad at Panera will cost you $10," I reminded him, expecting him to reconsider. But he confidently assured me that he had the money.
Jack had been managing his own budget for a while at this point. Each month, I gave him money to spend as he saw fit—within some basic guidelines—because I wanted him to learn how to make financial decisions. But as I watched him walk away to spend ten times the cost of a perfectly good burrito, I realized something:
Jack thought he had “plenty” of money simply because it was October 31st, and he still had funds left in his budget. Never mind that the next day was November 1st and a new month would bring new financial decisions. He was living entirely in the moment.
That was my lightbulb moment.
Chores by Age Group
If you’ve ever wondered whether your child is ready for chores or which ones to start with, you’re not alone. Chores can sometimes feel like a battle, but the truth is, they’re one of the best ways to teach responsibility, independence, and teamwork. The secret? Start small, stay consistent, and match tasks to your child’s stage of life.
Chores aren’t just about keeping a tidy home (though that’s a nice perk). They’re about helping kids grow into capable, confident adults, one small task at a time.
Giving children regular responsibilities at home isn’t just good for your household; it’s good for their future. Kids who help out learn important life skills, develop a sense of accomplishment, and understand what it means to contribute to a team. Plus, research shows that children who do chores are more likely to grow into independent, self-sufficient adults.
But how do you know what’s appropriate for each age? Here’s a guide to help you get started, with ideas for every stage.
Allowance: What Works, What Doesn’t, and Why It Matters
Allowance is a hot topic among parents. When to begin? Should it be earned? And how much is too much? If you’ve ever second-guessed your approach to allowance, you’re not alone.
The truth is, allowance for teens is a powerful financial teaching tool. When structured the right way, it helps teens develop smart money habits, budgeting skills, and financial confidence that will follow them into adulthood. In fact, a study done by SNB shared that nearly 8 out of 10 parents give their kids an allowance in the U.S.
But here’s the catch: how you handle allowance matters just as much as whether you give one at all. Let’s break down three key strategies for making allowance work for your family.